thinking and feeling together

i think too many times i’m just doing one and not the other. when i’m thinking, i’m just working and working and just doing stuff but not feeling about ow the people around me are doing, about whether i’m taking time to make friends..to cherish friends. when i’m feeling, i’m just beeing all emotional and feely and not taking action to curb those negative emo feelings/ride on the waves of the good feelings and making sth really good of them.
i need to do my thinking and my feeling together.

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for now, the daily dose..
Mr Dollar Bill Arsonist
A regular at upmarket waterholes like Winebar and Qbar, he may be young, but he's loaded and disillusioned with the value of money. Used to lighting cigarettes with lit up dollar bills and with a wallet full of titanium credit cards, he's thinks money can buy you everything.

You may find this familiar:
Girlfriend: Oh no....I'm really worried about my grades...
He: How much do you want?
Girlfriend: Do you think God exists?
He: Seriously, how much do you want?

Verdict: He does not take you seriously and assumes all relationships are developed on the basis of a monetary transaction. His so-called man-buddies are probably hangout out with him because he's loaded. When push comes to shove, you'll never know if he'll be around. However, unless you're a gold-digger whose sole life purpose can be fulfilled with material satisfaction, you go Girl!
-by Aston Lim, UC Santa Barbara & Melissa Lee, NTU